November 30 - December 14, 2007

Vol. 43, No. 5

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Dear A&W,

Dear A&W,

My ex-girlfriend keeps trying to get back together with me. I like her a lot, but I can’t help but remember the problems that caused us to break up. What should I do?

Dear Bad Memories,

If it didn’t work the first time, then it probably won’t work the second time. Why did you guys break up?

To us, you guys aren’t on the same page. She clearly didn’t moved on from you and doesn’t seem to want to. If you don’t want to get back together, just be firm in your decision and assert your independence by slowly distancing yourself until she’s over you.

You’re both too young to be hung up on something like this, so just move on.


Dear A&W,

My boyfriend is always pressuring me for sex, but every time I want to try something different, he acts nervous and reluctant. What does this mean for me?

Dear New Positions,

What type of job requires flirting For a guy who’s always pestering you for a good time, you would think he’d want to try something new and fun. The important part to focus on is that he is attracted to you, and you both want to be together.

What type of job requires flirting Everything else is superficial, although there are good ways to spice up life in the bedroom. There are also different ways to introduce new positions. You don’t have to suddenly whip out fuzzy handcuffs or candle wax and expect him to jump on the train.

What type of job requires flirting Start out by watching some good “adult videos” so that he’ll get into the right mood. If that doesn’t work, just ask him what he wants from you, and the two of you should be able to come to a compromise.

What type of job requires flirting Have fun with it! There’s nothing worse than having sex just to get it over with.

A&W Are Aimee Zhang & Wes Abney

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